SEX POSITIONS YOU SHOULD AVOID : The 5 Worst Sex Positions Ever

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Has your whole sex life been a lie? We surveyed
over 1,200 Women's Healthreaders about their
least favorite sex positions, and you won't like the
results: Women rated common moves like doggy
style, reverse cowgirl, and 69 as the worst sex
positions.
Chances are, those sex staples have been in your
arsenal since you bought your first condom. Men
have long relied on standard moves like
missionary because they're easy, efficient, and
feel great—but as it turns out, women have quietly
been cursing them the whole time.
To pinpoint the source of female frustration, we
consulted with top experts to uncover why your
five favorite positions just aren't cutting it—and the
upgrades you must make to satisfy her sex drive.
1. Doggy Style
Why she's not into it: Put simply, it's too
painful. "The issue here is you may be ramming
her cervix, which is why deep penetration is often
more harmful than hot," says Sara Gottfried, M.D.,
OB/GYN, author of The Hormone Cure. Plus, if
you're fully removing yourself, then re-entering
her, it often hurts her chances at staying fully
lubricated, Dr. Gottfried explains.
Women in our survey also said doggy's not
intimate enough. Even though rough sex can be
awesome if you're both into it, most women are
looking for more of a connection during sex, Dr.
Gottfried says. While you may have a
blast admiring her assets when she's on all fours,
her view of the bed isn't nearly as stimulating.
How to fix it: To prevent the bump and grind from
getting painful, keep your thrusts short and
shallow, rather than deep and fast. Shallow thrusts
will stimulate the front third of her vagina, which is
the most sensitive part, says Rebecca Rosenblat, a
sex therapist and the author of Seducing Your
Man.
Up the intimacy factor by running your hands
through her hair, down her spine, and occasionally
leaning forward to kiss and suck on her neck. And
don't forget the clitoral stimulation, Dr. Gottfried
advises. Just because you're focusing on her
backside, doesn't mean you should neglect her
most sensitive spots.
2. Woman on Top
Why she isn't into it: One word: insecurity.
According to our survey, a majority of women feel
more self-conscious when they're on top. Dr.
Gottfried says women often worry about what their
stomachs or breasts look like from where you're
laying. And even though you think she looks like a
rock star, even the tiniest shred of doubt can put
out her fire.
How to fix it: Switch into a side-by-side position
like "The Spork." Have her lie on her back, and
raise her right leg. Slot yourself between her legs
at a 90-degree angle and ease inside her. This
way, her legs will form the tines of a spork utensil.
(Check out 4 more Sex Positions Every Man Should
Try.)
3. Reverse Cowgirl
Why she's not into it: Because it's hard for her to
climax like that—and not everything fits when
she's riding in reverse. "Reverse cowgirl may
seem sexy and adventurous, but when you
actually try to enter her, things might not fit the
way you think that they should," says Jen Landa,
M.D., Chief Medical Officer of BodyLogicMD and
author of The Sex Drive Solution for Women. It
often boils down to the curvature of your penis not
coinciding with the angle of her vagina, Dr. Landa
says. Realistically, any time you bend your penis
too far at the base, it's not only uncomfortable for
her, it becomes dangerous for you. In other words,
you can break your junk.
How to fix it: If you're in it for the view, switch to
doggy (with our upgrades, of course). The fit's
more practical, and you can help her reach
orgasm, says Dr. Landa.
But if you still want the naughtiness factor, put the
doggy to bed. Do this: Stand up, have her bend
forward, place her hands on a stable mirror, then
enter her from behind. You'll still be able to
manually stimulate her, but now you can both use
the mirror to your advantage.
4. Missionary
Why she's not into it: It doesn't hit the right spots.
"And if you're on the smaller end of the spectrum,
this position doesn't really accentuate your size,"
Dr. Landa says.
How to fix it: Try using the Coital Alignment
Technique (CAT)—just don't call it that in bed. The
position is similar to missionary, except your body
is farther up and to one side. (So rather than being
chest to chest, your chest is near her shoulders.)
Have her bend her legs about 45 degrees to tilt her
hips up, which causes the base of your shaft to
maintain constant contact with her clitoris.
Even though the name is a mouthful, the move is
proven to work: Women who were unable to climax
in regular missionary were 56 percent more likely
to climax using CAT, according to a study from
the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy.
5. 69
Why she's not into it: She's, well, preoccupied.
According to our survey results, women say it's
too difficult to focus on receiving pleasure when
they have to concentrate on giving it. And pleasure
and reaching climax is heavily determined by her
mental state, Dr. Landa says. So it becomes
difficult to relax and enjoy your oral skills if she's
trying to take care of your needs at the same time.
How to fix it: If you want her to get the most out of
oral, you're better off taking turns giving and
receiving. Many women claim 69 feels anonymous
to them, because they want their partner to be able
to look them in the eyes and feel a connection,
says Gottfried. So if you stick to giving first, she's
way more likely to enjoy herself. (And if you really
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